Relocating for Family: Why Moving Near an Older Adult Loved One Makes Sense

By Kelsey Taylor

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In the tapestry of life, family is the thread that weaves us together. But what happens when that thread stretches thin, and an older adult loved one needs your support? The answer often lies in a heartfelt decision – moving closer to them. It’s a choice that can redefine the dynamics of your family, but it’s not one to be made hastily.

This article, courtesy of Shepherd’s Center of America, delves into the profound act of relocating near a family member, exploring seven critical considerations that will help ensure a seamless transition for both you and your cherished elder.

For Your Move

Gauge the Emotional Impact

Before you start packing boxes or house-hunting in a new town, Assured Senior Living advises taking a moment to assess the emotional and mental well-being of both you and your family members. Moving, particularly under such circumstances, can be emotionally challenging.

Open, empathetic communication is the bridge that connects your hearts during this process. Be prepared for a rollercoaster of emotions, from excitement to nostalgia to anxiety.

Is This Financially Feasible?

A crucial step in the decision-making process is conducting a thorough financial assessment. Research the cost of living in the new location, factoring in housing costs, property taxes, and daily expenses.

Make sure the new financial landscape aligns with your current situation or consider potential adjustments in your budget to accommodate any differences. Financial stability during this transition is paramount to ensuring a smooth relocation.

Digitize Files for Easier Access, Portability

Moving entails a flurry of paperwork, but you can simplify and reduce stress by digitizing necessary documents.

This involves using a tool to recycle existing file content into easily accessible PDFs, enhancing organization during the move while ensuring convenient reference for the future. Best of all, you can access free PDF tools (and files!) via your mobile device. You can use an online tool that allows you to convert files to PDFs by simply dragging and dropping them into the tool. For the latest information on how to achieve this, click for more details.

For Your Loved One

Help Your Loved One Make Connections

The CDC notes that loneliness can be a heavy burden for  older adults. While you can offer some semblance of companionship, it’s also necessary for them to spend time with peers. Look into the availability of social support networks.

Investigate Shepherd’s Centers and other engaging programs, support groups, and community organizations that can help your loved one establish and maintain vital social connections. These networks are invaluable in reducing feelings of isolation and fostering a sense of belonging.

Transportation Accessibility

Consider the mobility factor for your loved one. If they can no longer drive, assess the accessibility of public transportation or alternative means of getting around, particularly when you’re unable to drive them. A Shepherd’s Center volunteer driver may be an ideal option.

Easy mobility is essential for maintaining independence and ensuring they can continue to engage with their community and enjoy a fulfilling life.

Legal and Financial Affairs

To ensure peace of mind for both you and your loved one, consult with legal and financial professionals. Review their affairs, including powers of attorney and estate planning, to make sure everything is in order.

Addressing these critical matters early on can prevent complications down the road and allow your family member to focus on enjoying their golden years.


Relocating closer to an older adult loved one is a profound decision that requires careful consideration. By embracing these essential factors, you can make a well-informed choice that benefits everyone involved. Remember, it’s not just a geographical shift, it’s a journey of love, support, and togetherness that can enrich the lives of both you and your cherished elder. In the end, the effort is a testament to the enduring bonds of family.

Shepherd’s Center of America focuses on aging well in the community with enriching opportunities for lifelong learning, volunteer service, healthy living, and community connections. Connect with us today to learn more! 816-960-2022.

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